UNFAIR Child Matenance

Ok my daughter comes here to live with me for 3 mths, in that time i send the paperwork to the CSA (Child Support Agency) and 4 weeks later I get a letter saying that sorry Sir we cannot accept your notice of care, because you have not been able to prove that you are the father of the child, you will need to get the birth certificate and foward a copy to us. .........
Now for the intresting part, I have been paying money for 13 years to the CSA for my daughter and they have a copy of the Birth Certificate on file, they are the ones the said I needed to pay it?... but now that the same daughter has swapped care and they cant use the same copy they have on file already, I am unable to claim matenence for her? Ok what the hell ??

I'm told because there is a change of care they need new information as the old information is not able to be used.... so I send away for the birth cert... which takes 4 weeks. Then I send it to them, but it gets lost so once again im stuck without matenence for another 4 weeks while I do it all again....

Then.... my daughter decides that she wants to live back with her mum (3 mths later from coming here to live with me)

Now in that time I have had to set her up in a new private school, ans paid for all the costs etc.... (quite a few thousand by the time she leaves to go back to her mother)

BUT.... then not even 2 weeks later im told by the CSA that because I did not have the forms in to them (Birthcert) I am unable to have mateneance paid for the time she was in my care (they dont back date it) These clowns lost the first one!

Ok but then to my total dismay, they tell me that now I need to pay matenance again... when I asked where they got the copy of the Birt certificate from to show that I was the Father (like they said they needed to claim matanence. They said that they had my Ex's copy still on file.... FFS???? how the hell is that able to be done... so its ok for them to use the old copy for her just not me?

Then another note I have a friend that was paying his ex wife directly but decided he was sick of his ex calling him about what time or day it would hit the account so he asked the CSA to collect it and he would just send it to them for dispersement... BUT APPARENTLY THEY WONT LET THE PAYEE DECIDE ! so only the claimee has that right?.... and he was told that if she wont go thru CSA he would need to not pay her and tolerate her abuse until she registered a case.. OMFG ! how stupid is this...

OK CSA THIS HAS GONE ON LONG ENOUGH!
STOP PLAYING ONE SIDED AND GET YOUR CRAP TOGETHER THE MALES IN THIS SITUATION HAVE HAD ENOUGH! (yes I know there are also females in this same situation but 90% are males who try to do the right thing and just keep getting jabbed by political indesion!

I will be adding to this blog over time as I have many more unfair instances that i will put up for comment, if anyone else wants to add feel free.